Just as you trained your mind to interrupt those negative thoughts and replace them with a positive- YES thought, let me throw you a curveball. I want you to grab hold of another powerful parenting word: NO. Believe it or not, learning when and how to effectively say “No” will change your life and your child’s. Here’s why.
Just as you trained your mind to interrupt those negative thoughts and replace them with a positive- YES thought, let me throw you a curveball. I want you to grab hold of another powerful parenting word: NO. Believe it or not, learning when and how to effectively say “No” will change your life and your child’s. Here’s why.
If you are a kind, American woman (or man) I’ll guarantee that you don’t use this word enough. You want to please everyone you love- especially your family and you want to keep conflict to a minimum. So you do what nice people do- you withhold that nasty two letter word. The problem is, you could be making your life and the lives of those you love, miserable.
A woman or man who feels is in charge of his/her life and decisions lives with freedom. Right after Jesus gave the Sermon on the Mount, he addressed his listeners about the way they spoke. In Matthew’s gospel He says, Let your Yes be Yes and your No, no. Make up your mind, stick to your beliefs, be clear and don’t make excuses. No waffling, no second-guessing at everything, just do what is good and right.